
If one of you allows the other to take charge, to take control over your thoughts, actions or behavior, then you are not leading the life you have wished to lead. You are leading the life designed and manipulated by another whether it is done consciously or not. Each of you have the choice to move forward alone or in tandem with others. It is important that you realize that each of you have the ability to choose which way your soul will experience circumstances to bring you greater understanding as you walk through each day.
No one is ever a victim from a spiritual standpoint. Even the most horribly uncomfortable, painful or seemingly negative occurrences are all a part of each plan to move forward. Sometimes, the soul in desperation, allows and we say allows, this incarnation to take a negative turn so as to help the soul understand most definitively what the soul wishes to learn. If your soul wanted to go from A to C and the only way to get there was to take a hard and difficult experience along the route of B, then that is what is done. It is always about how each and everyone deals with what their life becomes. It is always about how the next moment is spent and how the perception of the experience is received. It takes more time, energy and heart to look backward trying to figure out how the events occurred then it does to look up, to ask for help, to turn inward to receive strength and calm and to move forward from whatever point one finds themselves.
The anchor of truth, love and a willingness to grow and change makes every situation one of peace if it is allowed. Take the opportunity to move forward from the positive position. If you are too frustrated or stressed, then rest, find a means to seek laughter, fellowship with true kindred spirits and then when you are ready, proceed in a forward motion letting go of past hurts and disappointments.
Metatron